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April Thanatology Café Program Preview


The April Thanatology Café Gathering is on
Saturday, April 9th, 2016, at the

The RCS Community Library

95 Main Street

Ravena, NY

Program starts at 2:00 p.m. and runs until about 4:00 p.m.


death a personal understanding

Definitions of death have been debated for centuries, depending on culture, social conditions, and the role of the medical profession. In the Thanatology program, we will examine how ideas have changed historically and how our newest definitions, like “brain death,” may not yet be adequate for encompassing all of death’s meanings. Our group conversations will shed light on our personal understandings of death and dying in our families, communities, nation, and will shed light on our own attitudes towards personal death.

Our video  series on death and dying consists of 10 half-hour video programs, which will be shown over the course of 10 regular gatherings, and will allow Thanatology Café participants to acquire a deeper understanding of death and dying through case studies and moving personal stories of people facing their own death or the death of a loved one. This series explores a wide range of American cultural perspectives on death within the context of current issues, including AIDS, death by violence, suicide, assisted suicide, hospice care, end-of-life decision making, and how children react to death.

This will be the first in a series of ten short films on death and dying, and will be followed by group discussion about the film.

The Life of Death

The Life of Death is a touching handdrawn animation about the day Death fell in love with Life. That’s all I’ll say about it now because I want you to view it and share your own impressions with the group on April 9th. But I will share with you some comments by other viewers just to illustrate the range of impressions the clip made.

After having viewed the short film one person commented:

This is a ‘cute’ and beautifully made film, but its shortcoming is in its presentation of Death as some sort of entity that can choose to take Life away from the living. Life is a Gift that is proffered as a Great Mystery; a Gift that animates the living as long as the flow of Life continues towards and through an individual, and as long as the individual is capable of accepting, embracing and nurturing this flow of Life. When the flow is withdrawn, blocked or can no longer be embraced and nurtured, it ceases to enliven the individual and Death ensues as a departure of, or a disconnection from the flow of Life. Whether or not there is some entity from which this Great Mystery of Life is proffered is unknown, unknowable and irrelevant. It is the embrace and sustenance of the Gift of Life, as well as a respect for the flow of Life, that are of significance. An individual can choose to live Life, cling to Life, or release Life, or some sort of shock can forcefully cause one to release one’s embrace of Life. The flow of the Gift of Life is what unites all beings in Oneness.

Another viewer comments:

I needed to see this. It made me cry. I/we can go on for months and years so harshly, without stopping, without remembering and encountering the power of tenderness. May I never forget you.

Although most viewers simply said “Thank you!” or “Awesome, beautiful!”, one viewer took a different slant:

I do not like the story of death, there is no happiness in it at all, I’ll not share this video with anyone

What this range of impression tells us is that there are many, many impressions made by a single presentation of death, that each of us has a different personal take on it, while many share an impression. It will be interesting to hear from you about what you think of this short animation on April 9th.

Your Facilitator Ch. Harold

Your Facilitator
Ch. Harold

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Register Now for the RCS Thanatology Café Event on April 9, 2016!


Please Note: We have just been informed by the RCS Community library that the Thanatology Café sign-up sheets at the RCS Community Library are kept in a binder behind the check-out desk. You must ask a staff member for the book to sign up. 

register-nowWe recently announced an exciting new program coming to the RCS Community Library. The program, which plans to meet regularly monthly and will be supplemented by extraordinary meetings for smaller groups to discuss special topics focusing on death, dying, coping, grief, and death-related topics, has published its Initial Registration Form that can be completed before the Saturday, April 9, 2016, session at the RCS Community Library, from 2:00 – 4:00 p.m.

The organizers encourage interested participants to download and printout the form and to bring it the the April 9 session; that will save time and will leave more time for the conversations.

Sign-up sheets are also available at the RCS Community library, but interested persons can also R.S.V.P. their intention to attend by sending an e-mail to thanatology.cafe@gmail.com.

We are informed that local churches, fire and rescue departments, police departments, EMS, schools and local funeral directors have been contacted and urged to send representatives.

It’s an important program and will deal with a subject that really needs to be talked about more. It promises to be an outstanding opportunity for sharing, learning and information. Don’t miss it.

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Initial Registration Form

Of course, if you have any questions, please e-mail the organizers at thanatology.cafe@gmail.com. They will get right back to you with an answer.

Please click the Register Now image to display and download or print out the Initial Registration from, fill it out as completely as possible, and bring it with you to the Thanatology Cafe session on April 9, 2016, at the RCS Community Library, 95 Main Street, Ravena, New York. The session starts promptly at 2 p.m. so please be on time.

And in the meantime, visit the Thanatolgy Café blog.

Well be there and we hope you will be too; we are looking forward to meeting and chatting with you on April 9th!

The Editor

The Editor

 


Bigotry Abounds: Religious Censorship on Facebook


The Prime Minister of England, John Cameron, rose to the occasion of the Easter season in a beautifully crafted public address on England being a Christian nation, the good works of the Church, remembering persecuted Christians around the world at Easter. It was enormously refreshing to have heard a high statesman affirm his faith tradition without having to demean any other faith or belief system, and drawing our attention to remembering what Christianity is…or ought to be.  (Click here for a link to the video.) How very different from what we have here in the United States, where a politician can be shunned by Christians themselves for affirming his Christian Faith.

Blevin, an Antiochian Catholic cleric,
Deletes Cameron’s Easter Message!!!

I noted the term “bigotry” and “censorship” in the title to this post because I was appalled at the heavy-handed censorship exercised by one despotic moderator of a Facebook group calling itself the “Anglicans, Old Catholics, Western Orthodox, and Lutherans Discussion Group,” manhandled by one Mr Gregory Blevins, who will be very quick to correct you by informing you he’s “Father” Blevins. In our book he’s “Bigot Blevins”.

Gregory N. Blevins

Gregory N Blevins

According to his Facebook profile, Blevins claims to be a presbyter of the Antiochan Catholic Church in America— which could mean just about anything — but one thing is certain, Blevins, if you read some of his posts is a very angry old man, he’s cantankerous and not very pleasant. We have clerics like him in every denomination and they generally do more harm than good in their self-righteous pseudopiety.

One of the group members was thoughful enough to have posted Mr Cameron’s beautiful and articulate Easter message on Mr Blevins’ site but when Mr Blevins found it, he almost immediately deleted it from the site saying that it was anti-Obama, anti-US, and political; Mr Blevins doen’t want “political”  in his group. (In my experience, the Eastern rite churches are very political; burt Blevins doesn’t like your political, only Blevins’ political.) Our conclusion:  Mr Blevins’ is a hypocrite judging from his discussion group practices compared with the posts on his personal page!

You see, Blevins claims to be Ecumenical and Social Concerns Representative for the Antiochian Catholic Church in America. The ACCA is a recently founded “church” and has no roots of its own but claims to derive its authority and tradition from the ancient Syriac Orthodox Church and the Indian Orthodox Church. The truth is that it illicitly claims these authorities based on apostate or maverick lineages, and is one of those so-called churches that are founded by non-conformists, usually excommunicated or defrocked, who can’t tow the mark with a mother church. Problem is they lead a lot of faithful astray with their heterodox teachings and phony sacraments.

Back to PM Cameron, in 2013 the Daily Telegraph reported that at “[a] Q&A in August 2013, Cameron described himself as a practising Christian and an active member of the Church of England.[320] On religious faith in general he has said: “I do think that organised religion can get things wrong but the Church of England and the other churches do play a very important role in society.”[321] He says he considers the Bible “a sort of handy guide” on morality.[322] He views Britain as a “Christian country” and aims to put faith back into politics.” So where does that place Mr Blevins as the ACCA’s representative on ecumenical and social concerns. There seems to be a very serious contradiction in Mr Blevins’ actions, words, and his role in his tiny maverick church! We’d love to hear from Mr Blevins with some sort of explanation. Or from his metran, or archbishop, Victor Mar Michael Herron.

Anyone who heard Mr Cameron’s message would have been proud to hear a western leader affirm his Christianity but not Mr Blevins. Mr Blevins is more interested in playing mini-pope and acting like Goebbels’ mini-me with his censorship notions.

I wrote to Mr Blevins expressing my surprise at his heavyhandedness and his misinterpretation and misapprehension of Mr Cameron’s video. I told Mr Blevins that his censorship was not appreciated. I further mentioned that here in the US our own POTUS, Christian, Muslim whatever he claims to be today, should have such courage to make such a profound statement at Christianty’s most holy of holy seasons.

Shame on you Mr Blevins. I’m unfriending you and your group forthwith. Have a good life.

Ab illo benedicaris, in cujus honor cremaberis.
(May you be blessed [Mr Blevins] by Him in whose honor you will burn.)

Abba Silas, Heresiarch

Abba Silas, Heresiarch


Thanatology Café: Where the conversation is about death.


Church and clergy have fallen flat on their faces when it comes to supporting the bereaved in their difficult moments of loss. Scripted, cookie-cutter rituals and services, bland remarks, formulaic prayers all serve to leave the bereaved high-and-dry at a time when they need empathy and presence. A new opportunity for bereavement ministry is being offered in a unique program called Thanatology Café.

Thanatology Café: Where the conversation is about death, is being launched in Ravena, at the RCS Community library, 95 Main Street, Ravena, New York.

Be sure to mark the date: Saturday, April 9, 2016, 2-4 p.m. The program starts promptly at 2:00 p.m. so don’t be late. There will be light refreshments.

The organizers do ask that you sign up at the RCS Community Library using the sign-up sheets available there. You can also sign up at thanatology.cafe@gmail.com. When you sign up via email, you’ll receive an initial registration form that you should fill out and bring with you to the program on April 9.

What is Thanatology Café?

We thought you’d never ask!

joke's over


Thanatology: [than-uh-tol-uh-jee] the study of death and dying, and bereavement, especially the study of ways to understand the coping mechanisms, meaning-making, transcendence and transformation to support the bereaved and mourners, and to lessen suffering and address the needs of the dying and their survivors.


It’s a  totally unique program and it’s called

Thanatology Café.

It’s a place where anyone can come in and talk about their thoughts, concerns, and interests centering on death and dying, bereavement, grief, society and death, spirituality and death, the death industry, our responsibilities as human beings who will die some day.

Thanatology Café is a safe place to talk about the ultimate mystery and to share thoughts and concerns about death and dying. It’s a place where you won’t be judged, no agenda will try to convert you or attempt to sell you something. It’s neutral ground, a sacred space where you can open your heart and mind to benefit everyone.

Thanatology Café will also be a source of valuable information from professionals who work in the field of death and dying. The program will include speakers, presenters, or even a film for discussion. But most of the time it will simply be a place to freely express ideas and thoughts, to share with the entire group or in smaller groups working off their own energies, monitored by a facilitator.

Thanatology Café is going to be offered in at least four counties: Albany, Schenectady, Rensselaer, Greene to start. Since community libraries are centers for education and information and are central to most communities, the organizers will be holding the regular monthly sessions in community libraries throughout the area. There will also be other sessions for special interests or to organize special events like tours etc. to historic sites. One such site is Oakwood Cemetery in Troy, where Uncle Sam is buried along with a slew of other historic figures. But the crematorium chapel is a must see and TC is working on a tour for sometime in May or June 2016.

Thanatology Café is an important resource for first responders, church bereavement groups, bereavement ministries, and even funeral directors (TC will host several presentations by funeral directors with Q&A sessions).

Thanatology Café is for everyone and the invitation is open to anyone who needs or wants to talk about death, dying, grief, mourning, spirituality, traditions and superstitions, the funeral business. The field and conversation is wide open. Only the participants will decide.

Click the link to visit the Thanatology Café blog.

Don't be one. Join us at Thanatology Café on April 9th, RCS Community Library. The Editor

Don’t be one. Join us at Thanatology Café on April 9th, RCS Community Library.

The Editor


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